Here are some of my favorite places in Paris. The list is frequently updated as I discover new places and revisit others. You’ll find classic French bistros, cafés, places offering up contemporary French cooking, as well as some places that are good spots of enjoying the cuisine of other cultures, which are part of the multicultural mix of Paris.
In Paris, it’s usually wise call ahead to make sure they’re open and make a reservation. Restaurants in France like to know who’s coming to dine and some offer online reservations. If you call, it’s best to do so not during service hours as restaurants in Paris don’t have dedicated reservation people; you’ll be speaking with a waiter or host. If you can’t make it, canceling your reservation is very much appreciated.
I like dining in wine bars, and you can find more of them listed here. Due to licensing laws, at most you have to order food along with your drinks. So don’t be surprised when they ask that you order something to eat with your wine, although it can just be a plate of charcuterie or cheeses.
Some of the places I’ve written up on the site and I’ve added links at the end of each listing where I’ve written more about them. You can also browse my Paris Restaurant archives to read through all the listings and discover more places. Lastly, restaurants can change, even from one night to the next but I recommend these restaurants because I’ve had consistently good experiences at them, and hope that you do, too.
A La Biche au Bois
45 Av Ledru Rollin, 12th, tel: 01 43 43 34 38, (M: Gare de Lyon). Two blocks from the Gare de Lyon train station. Not fancy but a lot of fun, and great food. Order one of the fixed menus and save room for the cheese course. For starters, try to get through a gargantuan salade Perigordine, topped with a big chunk of foie gras. Many game dishes depending on the season. Closed weekends. (A La Biche au Bois.)
A La Petite Chaise
36 rue de Grenelle, 7th, tel: 01 42 22 13 35, (M: Bac or Sèvres-Babylon) The oldest restaurant in Paris, classically-attired waiters bring food that is perfectly correct, but don’t expect more, or any culinary curveballs. Open every day, including Sundays. (A La Petite Chaise.)
44 rue Jean-Pierre Timbaud, 11th, tel: 01 43 57 16 35, (M: Oberkampf) If you’re looking for a well-loved bistro slightly off the beaten track, Astier is your place. Open every day and night, the reasonable fixed-priced menu ends with a massive cheese board presented after the meal – you won’t walk away from Astier hungry! (Astier.)
1 bis Passage Saint-Sébastian, 11th, tel: 01 73 20 23 23, (M: Saint-Sébastian – Froissart) This youthful restaurant and wine bar is located in a passage, which you might need a map to find. It’s gone through a few incarnations of chefs, but the food is always fresh, interesting, and available in small plates (and a few larger ones), mostly meant for sharing. There’s a focus on quality ingredients and the wine list has some treasures on there. The staff may be hectic and the service a little too-quick, but they’re ernest and friendly if you have questions. I like the interesting salads which may combine cheeses, smoked fish, and crisp greens. For those who are hungry, the roasted lamb shoulder is enough to feed an entire table. (Au Passage website.)
18 rue Jean-Nicot, 7th, tel: 01 53 59 96 96, (M: Invalides, or La Tour-Maubourg) Enjoyable tapas-style bar, more upscale than anything in Spain, with fabulous hams from wild acorn-fed pigs. For dessert, stop down the street at Secco bakery for an almond-scented financier. (Bellota-Bellota website.)
Bistrot Paul Bert
18 rue Paul Bert, 11th, tel: 01 43 72 24 01, (M: Faidberbe-Chaligny) Although you won’t be the only one in the dining room who’s discovered this gem, it still gets high marks for its sensible wine list and spot-on versions of French bistro food. The famed steak-frites can only be ordered rare, and the desserts rank right up there with the best pâtissieres in Paris. Reasonable three-course menus are scribbled on a blackboard. Their sister restaurant down the street, Le 6 Paul Bert, is a good place for contemporary French food. (Bistrot Paul Bert.)
109 rue Vieille du Temple, 4th, tel: 01 42 72 13 77, (M: St. Paul or St. Sébastian Froissart) Terrific crêpes and buckwheat galettes, right in the middle of the bustling Marais. Using organic buckwheat and Bordier butter, wash your meal down with sparkling apple cider or lait ribot – Breton buttermilk. I start with an amuse-bouche buckwheat galette, rolled up with seaweed butter. Then end with a buckwheat galette with buckwheat ice cream and buckwheat honey, which is one of my favorite desserts in Paris. (Breizh Café.)
70 rue René Boulanger, 10th, tel: 01 42 08 99 41, (M: République, Strasbourg-Saint Denis or Jacques Bonsergent). This friendly restaurant is located on a side street near the less-touristy area near Place de la République. The menu changes daily, hence the name, and features whatever is fresh and seasonal. I am particularly fond of the Plume Ibérique when it’s on the menu, a meltingly tender piece of Spanish pork that’s sautéed perfectly, with a crisp exterior. Onglet (hangar steak) might be served with braised root vegetables, Utah Beach oysters are offered when in season, and an Asian-inspired pork belly, caramelized with honey, soy sauce, and nori, further showcase the chef’s talents. For dessert, best to go with the cheese course, which varies depending on what’s best…and ripest. Note that a new chef has taken over in the fall of 2015 and I haven’t been back. Will update after my next visit. (Chameleon website.)
1 rue Jules Vallès, 11th, tel: 01 43 71 49 52, (M: Faidherbe-Chaligny) Chef Cyril Lignac took over this Parisian address and revamped the dining room and the menu. The menu feature updated French classics, and the desserts are particular standouts. Open every day of the week. Across the street is the excellent bakery, La Pâtisserie, which makes some of the desserts and breads for the restaurant. (Chardenoux website.)
7 rue du Faubourg Montmarte, 9th, tel: 01 47 70 86 29, (M: Grands Boulevards) Folks come here for the value-priced meals rather than for fine dining. So if you stick to standards like roast chicken, frisée salad, and buttered radishes, you’ll be – well, um…okay. Just keep expectations low and enjoy the surroundings and brusque servers. The fabulous dining room is justifiably famous and it’s not uncommon to be seated at a table with other diners. No reservations but the line moves quickly. (Chartier.)
5 Rue Prouvaires, 1st, tel: 01 42 36 21 82, (M: Les Halles or Châtelet) For those looking for a taste of “old Paris,” it’s hard to get any closer to the experience than at Chez Denise, also known as La Tour de Montlhéry. Open until 5am (but closed on Saturday and Sunday), you can eat at all hours in the manner of the long-gone marketplace, where butchers and others would pull up for dinner in the early morning hours, enjoying a glass of wine with their steak-frites. Large portions are a feature, as are close tables covered with red checkered tablecloths, and no-nonsense (but friendly) service. Long-braised French classics are on offer, foie gras, escargots, and casks of house red wine, resting on the bar – which are a good bet by the carafe.
117 rue du Cherche-Midi, 6th, tel: 01 45 48 52 40, (M: Duroc or Falguière) Reliably good French bistro food, a genre that is increasing difficult to find in Paris. Friendly service and enormous portions (some of the dishes are available in half-sizes), the Grand Marnier dessert soufflé is a must, and the duck confit is among the best in Paris. Not a “budget” bistro, but the quality of the food merits the prices. (Chez Dumonet.)
10 rue Belzunce, 10th, tel: 01 44 53 06 20, (M: Gare de Nord). During the winter, there’s a chalkboard with “hunters specials”, which features superbly fresh game. On my last visit, I had a mound of tiny scallops piled up in their shells, drizzles with luscious Brittany butter and herbs, then a succulent wild pigeon with foie gras, ending with an unfortunate chocolate soufflé with little flavor. Now I never leave without ending a meal with a classic Breton kouign aman which oozes and butter and caramel from every delectable crusty layer. Just a note that many items on the fixed price menu carry supplements, which have risen sharply upward in recent years. Reservations essential.
47 rue de Bretagne, 3rd, tel: 01 42 72 36 26, (M: Filles du Calvaire) People are divided on Chez Omar, but the place has a lot going for it. It’s open every day but doesn’t take reservations, so you don’t need to decide to go weeks in advance (although the disorganized line is rather taxing), and you can have North African couscous or a pretty fine steak-frites. Service can be chaotic, and you’ll be surrounded by a big mix of people, from locals to out-of-towners. I stay away from the less-interesting first courses. (Chez Omar website.)
13 rue de Charonne, 11th, tel: 01 47 00 34 57, (M: Ledru-Rollin) One of the good, true remaining bistros in Paris that serves well-made French food. I like their giant Côte de Boeuf (for 2) as well as the dandelion salad with crisp bacon and a poached egg on top. Duck confit, steak-frites, and a few seafood selections are offered, as well as entrées like oeufs mayonnaise and plates of good charcuterie. The food is rustic, as is the atmosphere, but it’s a popular place with French diners, especially on Sundays when many other places are closed. (Chez Paul website.)
Cuisine de Bar
8 rue Cherche-Midi, 6th, tel: 01 45 48 45 69, (M: Sevres-Babylon) and 38, rue de Debelleyme, tel: 01 44 61 83 40, (M: Filles du Calvaire) Open-faced tartines, or sandwiches, served on pain Poîlane, the famed bakery next door. I am addicted to the sardines and olive oil with crushed salt as well as the sliced chicken with garlic mayonnaise and capers. If the French had come up with the sushi-bar, it would be like this. No reservations. (Cuisine de Bar.)
62 rue de Seine, 6th, tel: 01 40 51 00 09, (M: Mabillon or Odeon) and 7, rue Rouget d l’Île (1st) A favorite place to sit and have a lunch or dinner, grazing on the best Spanish hams, simple salads, and the best olives and wines from France, Italy, and Spain. Be sure to pick up a bag of Pimandes and chocolate-covered sauternes-soaked raisins, too. (Da Rosa website.)
34 rue de Richelieu, 1st, tel: 01 42 60 59 66, (M: Palais-Royal, Pyramides) Excellent contemporary cooking with well-sourced and market-based ingredients. From the team that created the popular Verjus restaurant, reserve in advance at this popular restaurant. The casual, friendly vibe makes it a great place for lunch or dinner. (Ellsworth website.)
Frenchie Wine Bar
5-6 rue de Nil, 2nd, tel: 01 40 39 96 19, (M: Sentier) The wine bar of the famed (and hard to get into) Frenchie restaurant, the food here is excellent, served in small-plate style, meant to share. It’s very popular with visitors, who line up before the 7pm opening time to snag a seat (no reservations!), and locals, who come later. (Frenchie Wine Bar website.)
5 rue de Pointoise, 5th, tel: 01 46 33 60 11, (M: Maubert Mutualité) Very good contemporary French cuisine in a relaxed, modern Left Bank setting. Chef Sylvain Sendra presents reinterpretations, like carpaccio of aged beef with caper emulsion and onion tart with mushrooms splayed across the top. The young dining room staff is friendly and helpful, and the sommelier will guide you through the wine list, which includes some curiosities. This restaurant has a Michelin star and offers multi-course tasting menus, or à la carte.
42 rue Jean-Pierre Timbaud, 11th, tel: 01 43 55 09 49, (M: Parmentier or Oberkampf) Spit-roasted meats are the specialty at this casual dining spot, such as Challans chickens and milk-fed leg of lamb, perfectly cooked on the rôtisserie, paired with a crisp circle of potato gratin. The menu changes daily and may include a house-made rabbit tourte (pâté wrapped in pastry, then baked), Serrano ham, and radishes with fleur de sel and French butter. The friendly staff manages the dining room and pours very good wines by the glass. Open every day of the week, including Sundays. (Jeanne A. website.)
51 rue Saint-Sauveur, 2nd, tel: 09 81 90 15 48, (M: Sentier, Réamur-Sébastopol, or Etienne Marcel) and 38 Passage des Panoramas. Authentic Thai food in a casual setting. (They have a more upscale restaurant, Monsieur K, nearby.) The fragrant green curry with vegetables is a favorite, with crisp Thai eggplant and vegetables in a spicy broth. Pad Thai is excellent as are the soups. (Kapunka website.)
La Bourse et la Vie
12 rue Vivienne, 2nd, tel: 01 42 60 08 83, (M: Bourse) Chef Daniel Rose has resurrected the classic Parisian bistro. Your meal will start with a cheese-laden gougère, then you might want to try the leeks vinaigrette, warm oysters bathed in Normandy cream, or a generous slab of foie gras. Main courses change, but I recommend the pot au feu, one of the best versions of the boiled beef dinner, which includes market-fresh vegetables, marrow, tender beef, and a shower of fresh herbs. (La Bourse et La Vie.)
67 rue Saint-Maur, 11th, tel: 09 83 56 94 11, (M: Saint-Ambroise) This pocket-sized wine bar serves a small menu of charcuterie, cheese, and a couple of other plates to share. What the place lacks in space, it makes up for in charm and a well-chosen selection of wines. Because of the size, it can get rather busy during peak hours and it’s more of a place to grab a glass and a snack rather than make an evening of. (La Buvette Facebook page.)
106 rue Saint-Honoré, 1st, tel: 01 42 21 92 40, (M: Louvre-Rivoli) This outpost of the other La Régalade (located out in the 14th) has good, reliable food, skillfully prepared. A pre-fixed menu hovers around €33 with supplements for special fare, such as various game dishes in season. (La Regalade Facebook page.)
L’As du Fallafel
34 rue des Rosiers, 4th, (M: St. Paul) closed Friday pm and Saturday. Join the crowd clamoring at the window while they prepare your fallafel with lightning-fast speed. Certainly a dive, and definitely popular. (I wish they would cook the fries more, though. Who wants soggy frites?) Fallafel fans might want to cross the river and hit Maoz, which makes a worthy (and dare I say better?) adversary with a selection of hot sauces and a help yourself selection of pickles and salads. Near L’As du Fallafel is Miznon, which has very good sandwiches, using fresh ingredients, and is pretty authentic Middle East experience.
70 rue Baudricourt, 13th, tel: 01 45 70 91 75, (M: Tolbiac or Maison Blanche) A very good, bustling spot for Vietnamese food. Inexpensive and authentic, expect your find yourself jammed elbow-to-elbow with fellow diners. Closed Monday.
Le Bon Georges
45 rue Saint-Georges, 9th, tel: 01 48 78 40 30, (M: Saint-Georges) The classic bistro has been updated with well-sourced meats and vegetables and this now-popular neighborhood restaurant. Good steak tartare and steak frites are on the blackboard menu (note that they will only cook steaks rare and medium rare, as they feel that the quality of their meat it too good to cook it any more), but there are fish dishes (fish sourced from Terroirs d’Avenir) and sides of roasted vegetables. (Le Bon Georges.)
Le Garde Robe
41 rue de l’Arbre Sec, 1st, tel: 01 49 26 90 60, (M: Louvre-Rivoli) This wine bar serves ‘natural’ wines and the friendly staff is happy to help you with suggestions. Although it gets crowded at peak hours, if you snag a table, you can order board of charcuterie and cheeses to make a nice meal. (Le Garde Robe.)
Le Relais d’Entrecote
20 rue Saint-Benoît, 6th, tel: 01 45 49 16 00, (M: St. Germain des Pres), and other addresses. This busy restaurant just serves one thing: Entrecôte and French fries. There are no choices except how you want your meat cooked, which is sauced and served tableside. I’ve never had a bad time (or a bad meal) here and the place runs like an efficient clock. House red wine is always a good choice and the dessert lists features picture-perfect versions of some of the French classics. No reservations can mean a wait at busy times. If you don’t mind dining early, arrive for the first seating, which is at 7pm. (Le Relais d’Entrecote website.)
10 rue du Marche Saint-Honoré, 1st, (M: Tuilleries. Authentic Parisian wine bar and a great place for a rustic lunch or simple sandwich at the counter, washed down with a glass (or two) of wine. I like to stop in late afternoon for a sip or two, accompanied with a most generous plate of their good charcuterie. (Le Rubis.)
Le Square Guardette
24 rue Saint Ambroise, 11th, tel: 01 83 76 04 70, (M: St. Ambroise) Just off this scenic square, this corner restaurant serves truly market-fresh food, sourcing from the best purveyors in Paris. Don’t expect everyday fare; the cooks here are very talented and the plates are a lot more refined and well-prepared than the comfy interior will lead you to expect. Friendly service and an engaging sommelier make this neighborhood place a favorite. (Le Square Guardette website.)
84 quai de l’Hôtel de Ville, 4th, tel: 01 42 77 63 98, (M: Hôtel de Ville or Pont Marie) This hole-in-the-wall bistro serves well-made French classics without the fuss (or price) of other places. Classic French without any pretense. In season, you’ll find game dishes. Open seven days a week. (Le Trumilou.)
11 Rue Gregoire de Tours, 6th, tel: 01 43 54 60 74, (M: Mabillion or Odéon) This sweet crêperie makes great buckwheat galettes (crêpes), in a neighborhood where reasonable restaurants that use fresh ingredients are hard to come by. I stick with the classic complète with ham, cheese, and a sunny-side up in the center, then end with a dessert galette, with a scribble of bittersweet chocolate sauce or house-made salted butter caramel. Note that buckwheat crêpes are called “galettes” in French, and if you want your dessert to include a buckwheat crêpe, do like I do, and ask for a galette instead of a standard flour crêpe. (Little Breizh Facebook page.)
19 place des Vosges, 4th, tel: 01 42 78 44 64, (M: Bastille) Open for breakfast, lunch and dinner everyday, this is a fine spot to sit under the arches of the gorgeous Place des Vosges. Standard French fare (the fixed menu is your best bet), generous salads, and Berthillon ice cream. Some people note, however, that the service can be brusque and the food isn’t all that outstanding. Still, it’s a beautiful place to sit on a nice day and enjoy the scenery. No reservations or credit cards. (Ma Bourgogne website.)
108 rue Amelot, 11th, tel: 09 54 74 16 36, (M: Filles du Calvaire) The fresh food, served on small plates, makes this a good choice for grazing while you enjoy your cocktail (or glass of wine) at this casual spot, with a renown cocktail bar. Chef Lina Gaschetto changes her menu daily, but if she has pierogies on the menu, order them, as well as any of the other dishes that strike your fancy. It’d hard to go wrong with whatever comes out of her kitchen. (Pasdeloup)
5 rue Mondétour, 1st, tel: 01 40 26 47 81, (M: Étienne Marcel) Tucked away in a nook near Les Halles, this contemporary restaurant has some of the best food in the city. Using the best ingredients and with friendly service, you’ll find everything from wild mushrooms in season, to Basque cheeses and sparkling fresh fish, well-presented. Update: The chef left to open his own restaurant and I’ve not been back since the change. Will update this listing after my next visit. (Pirouette website.)
4 rue de l’Exposition, 7th, tel 01 45 51 88 38, (M: Ecole Militaire) This compact restaurant serves contemporary Basque food, which may be spiced with pimente d’Espelette, or paired with some of the wonderful charcuterie and cheeses from the region. Everything is well-prepared, and quite filling…so save room for dessert, especially the outstanding Gâteau Basque. (Pottoka)
170 rue du Faubourg Saint Denis, 10th, tel: 01 40 05 01 01, (M: Gare du Nord) This Indian restaurant is completely vegetarian, making it a good choice for folks avoiding meat, or who want a change from having to be content with a salad at a bistro. The food is very good and the place is spotless. Very casual, no reservations. (Saravanaa Bhavan website.)
80 rue de Charonne, 11th, tel: 01 43 67 38 29, (M: Charonne) By now, everyone has heard about the excellent, vaguely Nordic-inspired cuisine of Bertrand Grébaut and reservations are tough to come by. (Lunch is easier to get into.) Sparkling fresh ingredients presented with imagination, but with the focus on flavor. Excellent food. Note: Septime has a wine bar and seafood bar nearby as well. (Septime.)
52 rue Richelieu, 1st, tel: 01 42 97 54 40, (M: Bourse, Quartre-Septembre, or Pyramides) Inventive and outstanding cuisine by Braden Perkins that changes daily, and seasonally. Fixed menus feature a range of ingredients, techniques and cultures, which all come together in multi-course menus that will surprise and delight. There is a casual wine bar downstairs (no reservations) that serves light fare, great frites, and an intriguing selection of wines by the glass. (Verjus Wine Bar.)
You can find lots more suggestions and recommendations in my Paris Restaurant archives.
Some of my recommended Paris dining and travel guides:
- Clotilde’s Edible Adventures in Paris
- Pâtisseries in Paris
- Hungry for Paris
- Zagat Paris
- Markets of Paris
- The New Paris
- Eating and Drinking in Paris: French Menu Reader
- The Food Lover’s Guide to Paris
For information and listings of my top places for chocolate in Paris, I’ve devoted an entire chapter to those listings including addresses and specialties in my book, The Great Book of Chocolate, and more of my favorite Paris guides are listed here.
Dining Tips in Paris
In the past few years, Paris restaurants have become more relaxed and casual. As a younger generation has swept through and pumped some new vitality into the dining scene, you won’t find as many stiff waiters as you would have in the past. However you should still consider dining out in Paris as if you are eating in someone’s home: Consider yourself a guest. The cooks and servers are there to make sure you have a good time and eat well, and you are there to be an appreciative diner.
If you have food preferences or allergies, let them know when you reserve the table or when you arrive, not when the food is brought to the table. Most places are accommodating although unlike restaurants in the U.S., and elsewhere, restaurant in France don’t have a large staff or keep a variety of foods in the kitchen, so they may not be as nimble as making changes.
Here are some tips and answers to many commonly asked questions:
Water and Wine
It’s never required that you order a pricey bottle of water in France and every restaurant and café will give you a carafe d’eau (tap water) upon request. The tap water in Paris is of high-quality and good to drink. If you want to order a bottle of water, ask for gazeuse (with gas) or plat (flat, without gas). Ice is rarely given as the French believe iced drinks are bad for your health. In a café, you can ask your waiter for extra ice, although they may not have it on hand.
Wine by the carafe is inexpensive in Paris. The house wine sold by the carafe or glass is usually of good quality, which is why many French people order it. You shouldn’t feel pressured to order a bottle. (Once again, check the other tables; if it’s a café, you’ll probably see carafes of wine on most of the other tables.) Sometimes restaurants have a blackboard so diners can see what the wine of the moment is, which is usually a good value. If you need wine guidance, ask the server, and if you have a budget, ask if they suggest something in your price range. Note that “natural wines” have become popular in Paris, which sometimes have a pronounced cider-like taste.
If you order two appetizers, or a bowl of soup as a main course, the waiter may be taken aback. Don’t take it as an insult; it’s just not done in restaurants. Proper dining in France is taken seriously, but if you’d rather eat lightly, you could eat in a café and have a salad or soup for dinner, along with bread and wine. Wine bars are excellent places to graze on small plates.
Meat and Fish
Ordering meat rare, or bleu, means that you will get raw meat, hardly cooked, which is how many French people eat beef. Saignante is rare, à point (to the point) is medium-rare, and bien cuit or semelle (shoe leather) is well-done. If you like your steak well-done, due to the high quality of the beef, some restaurants that specialize in beef may not allow you to order it that way, so don’t be surprised if they refuse to cook it well-done and steer you toward another item on the menu.
Cuts of meat in France don’t correspond to most cuts of meat in America (and elsewhere) due to different methods of butchering. And the varieties of fish available often aren’t available in other countries and are called by their French name, of course. Waiters sometimes know the translation – but not always – so if you’re very concerned about which cut of meat is which (or which fish is which) when you dine out, you may want to get a French Menu Translation Guide.
Croissants and Pastries
Although it’s tempting, ask before bringing pastries to a café. Many cafés sell croissants at the bar in the morning, and may (or may not) be amenable to bringing your own goodies. So ask nicely if it’s okay before spreading out your treats across a table. Most places understand if you’re from out-of-town. (And if you want to get on their good side right away, offer them a taste!)
Oh-la-la! Everyone wants a buttery croissant in Paris – and why not? Just be sure when you do go to a pastry shop, to ask for a croissant au beurre, which is made with pure butter, rather than a croissant ordinaire, made with margarine. Pure-butter croissants are long and straight, whereas the ones made with other fats are usually very curved. Note that some bakeries do not actually make their croissants on the premises (mon dieu!) – butter or otherwise; they buy the pre-formed croissants and bake them in their ovens. A very good bakery will make them from scratch. And, of course, those are always worth seeking out.
Lunch and Dinner Hours
Many folks want to dine in non-touristed restaurants, surrounded by “locals.” If you want to eat amongst Parisians, opt for the later seating. Few Parisians eat dinner before 8pm and most will reserve at table for later than that, especially on weekends. Some of the more popular restaurants in Paris now have early seatings to accommodate those who don’t mind eating earlier, and it’s often easier to obtain reservations for the earlier seatings. If you get seated in what some refer to as the “English section,” don’t be miffed and assume that they are putting you in Siberia. Sometimes restaurants have one waiter who speaks English, so they will group non-French speaking diners there. If you prefer to be seated at a certain table when you go to a restaurant, you can certainly request that one.
Lunch starts in most restaurants at noon or 12:30, and places start filling up at 1pm. Tip: If you go to a café and just want coffee or a glass of wine, don’t sit at tables set up with silverware and glasses, especially at mealtime or right before. Those tables are for diners.
Don’t assume your waiter is rude just because he doesn’t introduce themselves by name and rush over to refill your water after each sip. Unlike American restaurants with large staffs, due to high labor costs, restaurants in Paris often only have one or two people serving an entire dining room with no busboys or hosts. They are really busy! When they have to deal with English speakers, or people figuring out menus, that slows down their entire process. Don’t think they’re necessarily impolite but they are doing their best to take care of as many diners as possible. Realize that dining in France is an important so relax and enjoy your experience, which may be more leisurely than you are used to.
As mentioned, you are considered a guest in France when you go to a restaurant, not just a customer. So you should act like you’re in someone’s home, and being demanding or bossy won’t get you very far. If you have a special request, asking nicely and apologizing is your best bet. Special requests and food allergies aren’t as well-known in France and some places aren’t used to adjusting menus for special dietary preferences, or offering things on the side. (But it’s certainly not out of line to ask.)
There is a perception the French are rude which is probably because you never come across anyone rude anywhere else ; )
In Paris, it’s imperative to say ‘Bonjour Madame/Monsieur’ when entering a shop or restaurant, and ‘Merci Madame/Monsieur’ when leaving. There is an equally incorrect perception that Americans are impolite since we don’t have a habit of acknowledge salesclerks in shops in the States, as they do in France. When in Paris, think of it like being invited into someone’s home and stepping inside without saying hello. In Paris, always err on the side of being extra polite. (That said, many shopkeepers tell me they like Americans, so keep it up, folks!)
Bread and Butter
Only in fine dining rooms will you be given a bread plate. Normally you place your bread directly on the table in a café or restaurant, not on your plate. Butter is rarely served with bread, but it’s usually okay to ask for it. This may answer your question, “How do the French stay so thin?”
Once you place your order in a restaurant, I advise not making any changes, which disrupts the flow of things. For some reason, once that ticket is submitted to the kitchen, you’re pretty much committed to what you’ve ordered. If you have food allergies or intolerances, make that known when you are ordering and ask the waiter for suggestions.
At least once during your stay, you will order some fish that might require a degree in marine biology to eat, or an unimaginable organ, by mistake. When it happens to me I think of it as an instant French lesson. You will also probably get served a steak that’s not cooked exactly the way you expect it, and fish will be served with the head on and bones in. (Taking them out before cooking dries the fish out, they rightly say.) If something is obviously wrong, for example, you ordered a rare steak and it comes to the table gray inside, or the soup or cheese is ice-cold, you should bring it to the attention of the waiter. In lower-priced restaurants and cafés, you should keep your expectations equally modest, though.
Talking vs. Shouting
Anglophones are known for talking LOUDLY. If you don’t believe it, watch cable television “news” for a few minutes. It’s so notable that restaurant reviews in the United States now include ‘sound’ ratings to denote the volume in restaurants. An (unfortunate) change in the Paris dining scene, however, are loud locals, too: I’ve seen older French people shush tables of younger people, who are speaking loudly.
Many of us are used to speaking loudly, especially when we get into groups. If you’ve ever tried to have a peaceful dinner next to a table celebrating their annual office party, you know what I’m talking about. Out of respect for other diners, it’s considered polite to modulate voices so as not to disturb other diners.
Except during the morning hours, each time you order café, you will be served a small cup of dark, espresso-like coffee – a café express or café noir. If you want coffee with milk when ordering ask for a café crème, not after they bring it. You may get a funny look if you ask for a café au lait, which is coffee with milk served in a bowl, at home, for breakfast. Café noisette is an espresso with a touch of milk.
Waiters will not automatically bring milk with coffee. If you don’t understand why, assume it’s the same reason that McDonalds in the United States don’t serve red wine. If you want milk with your coffee, you need to specify each time to each waiter in each restaurant. There’s no master-file on how each visitor to France takes their coffee. (Although come to think of it, with the famous French bureaucracy and staggering paperwork, perhaps they’d be willing to take that on.)
A new wave of coffee places has swept through Paris, offering coffee make with locally roasted beans and prepared with care. Here’s a list of my recommended places for drinking coffee in Paris.
After dining, you’ll need to ask for the check when you want it, called ‘l’addition’—it’s considered impolite to give a guest the check before they’ve asked for it. If you’re pressed for time or having trouble getting the server’s attention, in casual places, it’s acceptable to go to the bar to pay.
Tips are always included in the amount shown on the check. In Paris, if the service is good, diners round-up the check in restaurants, such as if the check is 19€, it’s normal to leave 1€ or a few euros extra if you get very good service – but it’s never required. In general, it’s acceptable to leave approximately 5% extra for very attentive service. But some Parisians get upset that Americans leave generous tips, rightfully fearing it will lead to future earnings expectations.
If I could tell visitors to Paris one thing that’ll improve their dining experience, it’s to relax. Yes, you might get some odd sausage instead of the soup you were expecting, or the steak may be cooked a bit more than you’re used to. (And the tables will to too close together, the service may be pokey, and you’ll have to ask at least twice for water.) But dining in France is not meant to be rushed and you don’t travel to experience things to be like back home, do you? So take advantage of the leisurely service, inexpensive wine, and multiple courses and relax and enjoy yourself.
As of January 1, 2008, all restaurants, bars, and cafés in France are non-smoking. Smoking is allowed only outdoors. Unfortunately, a large number of Parisians smoke so if you go to a café or restaurant and dine outside on a terrace, there will be smokers at nearby tables. If you have an aversion to smoke, you might want to eat inside.
Restaurants and cafés are often not well-ventilated, which locals seem to prefer. (If you open a window, someone will rush over to close it because of a perception that drafts are bad for you, even in the heat of summer.) Air-conditioning is still a rarity as well: even if advertised, don’t expect the full-on blast of cold air you’d get elsewhere. If you are the type of person to get warm in unventilated places, dress in layers so you can remove a sweater or overshirt if it gets too stuffy for you.
Two Final Travel Notes
One favorite travel tip is to scan your passport and store in a secure place online, such as on a secure cloud service. That way if you lose your passport, you can access a copy in case it’s lost or stolen.
And lastly, while Paris is a relatively safe city, there is a certain amount of petty crime. When dining out, avoid putting handbags on seats or in booths next to you (some folks get their wallets lifted by diners who come in, sit down, the abruptly leave), and don’t them unattended on the floor or hanging off the back of your chair. Here are safety tips from the city of Paris.
If dining in an unfamiliar area at night, have the restaurant call you a taxi to bring you home, or use a service like Uber or Le Cab. Avoid using your smartphone or other devices on public transit as they get swiped from users, and when in train stations and other busy places (especially those frequented by tourists), keep a close eye on your personal belongings.
More of My Tips for Paris Travel:
- Paris Safety Tips
- 10 Common Ordering Mistakes People Make in Paris
- Paris Transit Options
- Gluten-Free Eating in Paris
- Paris Favorites
- 10 Romantic and Sexy Things to Do in Paris
- Paris Cooking Classes & Wine Tasting Programs
- 10 Things to Do With Kids in Paris
- 10 Delicious Things Not to Miss in Paris
- Tipping in Paris
- Cookware Shops in Paris
- Romantic restaurants in Paris
- Health Care Tips for Travelers to France
- Where to Find the Best Steak Frites in Paris
- Accessible Travel in Paris
- Getting Money in Paris
- Paris Dining Blog Posts
- Where is the best duck confit in Paris?
- Paris Dining Guides
- Finding A Hotel in Paris
- Paris Airport Transfers
- Ways To Save Money in Paris
- Some Favorite Paris Restaurants
- Vegetarian Dining Tips for Paris and a list of Vegetarian Restaurants
- Where to Find a Great Hamburger in Paris (Kid-friendly)
- Sunday Dining in Paris
- Renting a Vacation Apartment in Paris
Helpful websites about Paris, most in English:
- American Hospital of Paris
- Batobus: Seine shuttle service
- Centre Pompidou
- Flea Markets: Vide greniers and brocantes
- France Time Zones
- French Banking Terms
- French Civil Service
- How to telephone France
- La Mosquée: A Paris Mosque
- Musée de Louvre
- Musée d’Orsay
- Paris Museum Pass
- How to replace an American passport in Paris
- Paris Tourism Office
- RATP: Paris métro, bus and RER
- SOS Helpline
- The City of Paris
- Vélib: Paris’ Bike Program
- World Time Zones